【正文】
In Chinese, “money and beauty” is an expression. Many people are used to using “money” and “beauty” together. So it is not easy to say the relationship between money and female. A woman cannot live without money. It is a common belief in China that a married woman should focus more on her family and it is the main duty of the husband to make money to support the family, so she need not look the ability of making money as what she should have. But money is so important for a woman that she cannot make a living without enough money , needless to say live a comfortable life. Thus, it is widely been thought that enough money is one of the most important factors that can lead to successful marriage and a girl married a man who is poor and lack the ability of making money will lose the guarantee of her life.
Some women use money to measure a man and then decide their future. They often take it for granted that a man's success is measured by the money he has earned. In their mind, if a man cannot afford a decent life, he is too common to be called a successful man. For instance, a girl of them is willing to married a man only because he has more money. And more and more young ladies take money into consideration when they choose their husbands without concerning about other important factors of successful marriage. It is why they say a man without money means a man without a woman.
As to other women, they show their wisdom on the attitude about money. They experience the verification and consideration of their husbands by money they gave them as all women do, but not by the amount of the money. Moreover they care more about what they can share with their husbands, including love, common interests etc, they are more concern about what their husband are willing to pay for them within the rang of their ability. Of course, they believe a woman should not follow bad examples only for making more money.
In a word, different attitude are showed about the relationship between “money” and “beauty” in China. It is seems that people are used to it, and some people use it to measure others. (曲靖师范学院政法学院·向光富)
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